Jap is a insulting term to Japanese people. I find it hard to believe that someone can go their entire life and not learn this one way or another. People do and say things when they can get away with it. Yeah, you say it all the time in the U.K. but how about in Japan all alone standing right near someone who will not tolerate it. You will quickly learn it is not a nice thing to say. You know it's wrong!!! Having relations with a Asian woman doesn't prove you are not racist. Maybe you hate a certain race, and not others. Maybe you just have a superiority complex towards certain people. Maybe people who say those insulting words are not racist, maybe they are just rude punks. I see people these days can get away with absolutely anything. This is mino compared to alot of things going on in the world. But it is wrong.