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I think you make some great points.
I do think that the subconscious can sabotage any conscious attempt at times. Just like with an abuse issue mentioned above.
There are many reasons why part of us may fight another part of us doing something.
I also think that just because one can or does doesn't mean another can in the same way. I also think that saying "just do it" and you are 'wrong' if you can't, can cause stress, pain, damage and actually increase the hold of an 'addiction'.
There are many cases of clearing out emotional components of past trauma and cravings and addicions diminishing or disapearing. If someone isn't even consciously aware of that trauma (deepest form of pain is numbness-blocked from memory) and it doesn't get resolved, IMO&E, the benifits of the therapeutis effects may outway the stressed caused by not having an outlet.
Truth is we have never walked in that persons shoes and in my opinion and experience, judgement always causes pain. It is also my experience that when I judge, if I look inside myself, I can find anything I am judging in someone else.
If I think they 'should'. Then I should. And IF I look deeply I can always find it in me.